It may be possible for you to love someone who doesn’t love herself, but it’s not so easy for the person who doesn’t love herself to let the love in. We decide for ourselves how lovable we are. Perhaps on some level we don’t trust it, we feel we don’t deserve it, or haven’t had a great track record so far–but ultimately, we each create our own opening for how much love gets in or doesn’t. We either let ourselves be loved, or we don’t.
If you’re not feeling the love, what’s up with that? It may be time to take a look at how much space you’ve left yourself to let the love in.